Let's Dance!

First name

Tom

I Would Describe Myself As

During my life I have championed causes, been part of social movements and have had a social impact in communities I have lived. I’ve raised kids, traveled, lived internationally and enjoyed it all. I have proven to myself I can have adventures, do crazy things, experience personal growth all on my own. However, always there is an awareness, sometimes in the background, sometimes in the foreground, that what I really desire is to find a woman I am attracted to and can love, and who can love me in return, where our most precious moments are maybe sitting on the couch reading our books and sharing what we’re thinking; cuddling and telling each other about our life’s adventures; waking up and seeing your face and smiling; dancing in the living room to our favorite tunes; holding hands; creating new adventures together.
I do best with someone who can listen, ask questions, and be curious. I’m an introvert mostly, but have been known to release my inner extrovert. I prefer dialogue over monologue. I’ll be interested in who you are and I expect the same.
As I read people’s profiles many mention the desire to travel. I would like to revisit Italy and also the Greek islands sometime, but really I think I would experience more joy, contentment, and connection sharing the day to day experiences that come along, or that are created together with a loving, committed partner. I recently moved to Yucca Valley to be close to my two adult children but would relocate if I found my next friend and lover, yet still in southern California.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

6' 2 (1.88 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Retired

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Dancing, Travel, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Going on a hike in the mountains followed by time at a cafe to talk.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, New age, Reggae, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Biography, Fiction, History, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political

What Do You Find Attractive?

Flirtatiousness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

A woman about my age who is kind, affectionate and still has a bit of the 60's rebel within.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed