The Bear want to wrap you in his arms.
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Drury, New Zealand | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
My wife passed on in May of 2006 from breast cancer. I'm looking for companionship initially, with a view to a permanent relationship but wish to take it slow for the moment.
Due to my wifes long illness Ive put the beef on but working to get fit again.
I work in the Papakura District Court.
I have four children, all over 21 years of age; two girls and 2 boys. My youngest daughter has a daughter also.
Im looking for a woman who has a sense of humour, who likes music e.g. Classical, Latin and Jazz. Also likes the theatre. Im well trained around the house e.g. dont mind vacuuming or cooking or doing the washing. I dont mind the independent streak in a woman as I find this a benefit.
I have very strong convictions on marriage vows. Im a firm believer in making marriage the hardest institution to get into and the easiest to get out of in stead of the other way round. Why do I say this, well I believe most couples that have difficulties, forget to communicate, that its a partnership for life and be prepared to give to give and take and change with the relationship. You have to work at it every day. Its not too hard to say I love you at least once a day. Its not hard to ring her during the day to see how she is. Its not hard to bring her flowers or a box of chocolates or take out for dinner. She is your best mate, best friend and lover. Respect her always. Trust her implicitly.
When Tisa, my wife was going through a bad patch with her chemotherapy, she thought I didnt love her any more. I new by her body language that she wasnt happy with me so I wrote her a letter expressing my thoughts, my love for her and my undying commitment to her; as part of the marriage vows says, In sickness and in Health. At the time I was her editor of her newspaper for the South Auckland Bosom Buddies and wrote this letter as an open letter to her but wanted to do this publicly.
So you see I enjoy the company of a woman.
Due to my wifes long illness Ive put the beef on but working to get fit again.
I work in the Papakura District Court.
I have four children, all over 21 years of age; two girls and 2 boys. My youngest daughter has a daughter also.
Im looking for a woman who has a sense of humour, who likes music e.g. Classical, Latin and Jazz. Also likes the theatre. Im well trained around the house e.g. dont mind vacuuming or cooking or doing the washing. I dont mind the independent streak in a woman as I find this a benefit.
I have very strong convictions on marriage vows. Im a firm believer in making marriage the hardest institution to get into and the easiest to get out of in stead of the other way round. Why do I say this, well I believe most couples that have difficulties, forget to communicate, that its a partnership for life and be prepared to give to give and take and change with the relationship. You have to work at it every day. Its not too hard to say I love you at least once a day. Its not hard to ring her during the day to see how she is. Its not hard to bring her flowers or a box of chocolates or take out for dinner. She is your best mate, best friend and lover. Respect her always. Trust her implicitly.
When Tisa, my wife was going through a bad patch with her chemotherapy, she thought I didnt love her any more. I new by her body language that she wasnt happy with me so I wrote her a letter expressing my thoughts, my love for her and my undying commitment to her; as part of the marriage vows says, In sickness and in Health. At the time I was her editor of her newspaper for the South Auckland Bosom Buddies and wrote this letter as an open letter to her but wanted to do this publicly.
So you see I enjoy the company of a woman.
Sign
Gemini
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Heavyset
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
Yes - Sometimes At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
My Hair Is
Grey
Status
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is
court Attendant
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Music, Internet, Dancing, Family, Photography, Theater, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Going To A Concert
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Catholic
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Biography, History, Technical
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
I like women who are independent, honest and trustworthy. Who can laugh at ones self, who like giving but enjoys receiving as well? I dont mind if you want time on your own or to go out with your girl friends for coffee.
I would like to take it slow, coffee, lunch or dinner first with view to a long term relationship if it works out.
Please forgive any clumsiness at first for it's been 31 years since I last dated. Im old fashioned when comes to opening doors, assist with putting a coat on you, assist with seating you, walking street side so that you wont get splashed. I like giving flowers or a box of chocolates.
Im not afraid of public affection, holding hands and giving cuddles et cetera, et cetera. As I have noted Im a bear, with big arms to wrap you in so that you know you are safe, to know that you are loved and while there, a shoulder to cry on when feeling down.
I hate violence in any form be it verbal or physical, but will protect you if required. I try to find th
I would like to take it slow, coffee, lunch or dinner first with view to a long term relationship if it works out.
Please forgive any clumsiness at first for it's been 31 years since I last dated. Im old fashioned when comes to opening doors, assist with putting a coat on you, assist with seating you, walking street side so that you wont get splashed. I like giving flowers or a box of chocolates.
Im not afraid of public affection, holding hands and giving cuddles et cetera, et cetera. As I have noted Im a bear, with big arms to wrap you in so that you know you are safe, to know that you are loved and while there, a shoulder to cry on when feeling down.
I hate violence in any form be it verbal or physical, but will protect you if required. I try to find th