we are strangers on a path of sameness

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am one who embraces change, as I re-define my existence; and discover the essence of who I am—

My journey is to achieve unity, balance and common ground with a person, who seeks sameness—

I travel unmarked roads embracing the possibilities of a meaningful relationship with a person who is confident in their being—

I enjoy life, and seek the horizons of tomorrow while cherishing the time that I’ve been blessed with. I embark on a unknown path seeking harmony—

I feel that in any relationship, you must know how to and manage your self-limitations; move beyond the past and utilize your experiences to build on new relationships—

I’ve learned not enter into a relationship with preconceived notions, unreal expectations, lies and deceit… for these negatives are sure to destroy our positive energy—

Past relationships have taught me that a man should “explore a woman's mind and find out not so much what she thinks, but more importantly… discover why she thinks what she thinks.”

I am one of sensitivity, compassion and understanding. I’ve learned to be patient and to take the time to invest my feelings and emotions wisely and realistically—

I’m considerate enough to know what is important to my companion; I respect her identity, feelings, and dreams—

Come not to me with… your hidden agendas or unreal expectations of what you’ve envisioned of me; but come to me with understanding, knowing that life is constantly changing, and we are changing; and we must recognize change when it comes—

I ask you...
If you have ever wondered what it would be like to meet someone that you enjoy just being yourself with;
If you have ever wondered what it would be like to get to know someone who seeks your inner beauty as well as appreciating your outer beauty;
If you have ever wondered what it would be like to meet someone who perhaps feels the same as you;
And, if you have ever wondered how it would be to meet someone who feels the temptation, secret inhibitions, forbidden passion, and express their feelings openly…
If so, then I'd suggest that we take the time to find out together and perhaps explore the possibilities of reaching common ground together.

Lastly, it is very important to know that "one should never make someone a priority in their life... who has only made you an option in theirs."

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Slender

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

My Hair Is

Bald

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Politics / Government

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Sharing meaningful conversation in a public place that is fun, exciting and memorable... laughter, adventure and intrigue... getting to know a stranger, while perhaps becoming friends...

I've Always Wanted To Try

exotic foods, dancing and fashions in exotic places with carefree people...

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

to remain healthy, happy and productive...

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Romance, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Jazz, Soul, Reggae, Gospel

When I Read, I Always Read

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Health, History, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious

My Idea Of Fun Is

Sharing conversation and walking on the beach, strolls though parks, sidewalk cafes, window shopping, movies, plays, museums, lectures, jazz/comedy clubs, dining out, relaxing at home...

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

My friend/companion should possess pride, dignity and self-esteem in her persona. She should respect and work hard to maintain her values, standards and tolerance to indifference. She should possess the courage and strength to stand by her convictions/beliefs; but understanding enough to realize that we are different, and what matters to me might not necessarily matter to you.

She should possess maturity, insight and the ability to reason rationally. Express her emotions, desires and ambitions, and have a realistic perspective on her life and where she wants to go.

She must try to understand her man; be responsive to his needs regardless if she can meet those needs or not; she must love and like herself; be willing to express herself in times of sorrow, happiness, anger and pain. Learn to trust and believe that regardless of previous relationships... all men are not the same; and both must take equal responsibilities on the successes or failures of past relationships. She must be

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed