Newly widowed, I'm a Coat of Many Colors

First name

Stephen

I Can Speak

English, German

I Would Describe Myself As

First of all I'm a Cancer. Unfortunately the holidays were spent in hospice with my wife of 32 years after a lengthy illness as she passed.
I am a gentleman, polite, thoughtful and compassionate. Very open minded and adventuresome in making relationships work. My story is quite unusual which I would love to share with someone attractive congenial and open minded as well. I love animals I have three Yorkies. I am retired and part of my story is where I have been and worked. I like ladies who believe in taking care of themselves. All sorts of cliches come to mind but I will not bring them up here. Sexually we can have that discussion when we hopefully meet for coffee. I am quite frank and I will be be honest when the subject becomes appropriate. Lets just say I am not a prude and open to many things. I seek the friend with benefits to be honest and upfront.
Character is important too have been told I have a good sense of humor.
Finally, proximity to each other would be a huge plus. Eventually if God is willing and the magic happens I hope to turn the friendship into someting more permanent.
I hope this passes inspection these are not always easy to write.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

6' 2 (1.88 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian, European

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Silver

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Job Title Is

Retired

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Travel, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A nice dinner then coffee at home followed by "Dessert"

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To enjoy the rest of my life now that I am widowed. Seeking a companion that will be compatible with my tastes and idiosyncrasies. I am very opened minded and still enjoy lots of affection, if you know what I mean.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, I'm A Recording Artist, New age, Ambient

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, History, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Science, Science Fiction, Erotica

My Idea Of Fun Is

Working in my music studio mixing singing and recording. Its a passion of mine since I was a young person.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I may be older but I am very much alive and vital. To be truthful here my departed wife has been sickly for many years and unable to have physical relations regularly. Especially the last 5 years. When we were younger we had an open marriage and had many lovers. When she got sick that ended. My commitment remained.Differences in drives the only obstacle. I have been blessed with a strong drive. I hope to find that in a partner if I am lucky.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed