No Drama, Only Honesty and Caring
Cruiserzud
Covington, Louisiana | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Paul
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
First and I guess most importantly, I am a widower, meaning I am single. I have been so for a little more than 5 years. Also important, I am NOT looking for a replacement. I am looking for someone new, to enjoy spending time with. Having been happily married, I think I have a pretty good idea of what makes me happy and the first goal is friendship.
Being friends, or should I say the goal of two strangers becoming friends, is the first level of any relationship. Now, I have many acquaintances but, FEW friends. My wife and I were friends, the closest type of friends there are. I have discovered that there are hurdles to becoming friends. There are building blocks to engaging in a mutually satisfying friendship. Each encounter with a new person sets in motion the process of building the entity which may become that new friend.
I have definite ideas about what those building blocks are and the first of those building blocks is you seeing something in that other person that causes you to want to start building a relationship.
A architect draws plans and paints a picture of what the building will look like. Based on the outward appeal of the finished product, the potential owner of the building will make a decision of whether or not to proceed and dig deeper into the plans for building a sound structure. In other words, YES, ir all starts with “curb appeal.”
I have tried to show you a couple of pictures that I hope might make you want to see if there is anything of substance, that might make you want see if this “building” might be something that could ake you happy.
Let me add, at the risk of being straight forward. I am NOT interested in marriage. I have been there twice, once in a situation that was probably wrong from the beginning and the second time, happily. I AM looking for a relationship that would have substance and one that would be a source of joy and would last.
I need to say that first, I will only respond to those with a picture. Second, I will only date within my ethnicity. There should be much to talk about, if mutually we decided to see what could develop. It can’t happen here. It can only begin. Has to start somewhere, right? So, if anything that I have said here, strikes any chord, contact me. Let’s talk. Hope to hear from you.
Being friends, or should I say the goal of two strangers becoming friends, is the first level of any relationship. Now, I have many acquaintances but, FEW friends. My wife and I were friends, the closest type of friends there are. I have discovered that there are hurdles to becoming friends. There are building blocks to engaging in a mutually satisfying friendship. Each encounter with a new person sets in motion the process of building the entity which may become that new friend.
I have definite ideas about what those building blocks are and the first of those building blocks is you seeing something in that other person that causes you to want to start building a relationship.
A architect draws plans and paints a picture of what the building will look like. Based on the outward appeal of the finished product, the potential owner of the building will make a decision of whether or not to proceed and dig deeper into the plans for building a sound structure. In other words, YES, ir all starts with “curb appeal.”
I have tried to show you a couple of pictures that I hope might make you want to see if there is anything of substance, that might make you want see if this “building” might be something that could ake you happy.
Let me add, at the risk of being straight forward. I am NOT interested in marriage. I have been there twice, once in a situation that was probably wrong from the beginning and the second time, happily. I AM looking for a relationship that would have substance and one that would be a source of joy and would last.
I need to say that first, I will only respond to those with a picture. Second, I will only date within my ethnicity. There should be much to talk about, if mutually we decided to see what could develop. It can’t happen here. It can only begin. Has to start somewhere, right? So, if anything that I have said here, strikes any chord, contact me. Let’s talk. Hope to hear from you.
Sign
Leo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
I Live
Alone
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Family, Dining, Reading, Tv, Movies, Travel, Cooking
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Meeting for coffee or an adult beverage somewhere that is comfortable and quiet enough for good conversation.
I've Always Wanted To Try
ZIP line
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, I Don't Have Any Friends
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Pop, Blues, Jazz
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, History, Political, Sports
My Idea Of Fun Is
Golf
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed